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[quote=Anonymous]I have 2 xHs. I’m pretty good friends with both.

My first xH is one of my best friends ever, we should have just stayed friends and not gotten into a relationship. We still get together and have long conversations, I don’t think anyone else “gets” each of us the way we do. We would have made much better BFFs.

XH2 was more the kind of friend who you don’t have a super in depth personal connection to, but you have things in common so hang out. We were hiking buddies first and should have stayed that way. Not nearly as close with him as xH1, but we communicate super well for our child and test each other memes a few times a month.

For reference, marriages split up bc xH1 was verbally abusive and xH2 cheated. I don’t really blame either. I think they liked me as a friend/person (and there’s that terrible marriage advice out there to “marry your best friend!”) and liked sleeping with me, but ultimately didn’t want to really be married to me. That unhappiness manifested as xH1 trying to bully me into changing into his dream girl, and xH2 trying to find his dream girl somewhere else.[/quote]

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