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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, he was totally mean and disconnected. To justify what he was doing he had to make me the bad guy. Also, affairs are training your brain to get instant gratification - instead of working on your issues or facing issues in your marriage (which are connected to your issues)you just fulfill needs another way. So it makes sense you are inpatient and frustrated when you aren't getting what you want. Our therapist pointed this out and it made a lot of sense.[/quote] How long did you go to counseling? Any suggestions if spouse is not interested or willing to go to counseling? [/quote] OP and PP. Did he move out during his affair or continue to live under the same roof? [/quote]
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