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[quote=Anonymous]I've had dreams where my husband has done something that hurt my feelings and touches on a major insecurity of mine. It generally stems from something small and then it gets blown up in my dream, so it's not real in that in real life I don't think he'd do that but because it involves him and real things I worry about, it feels big upon waking up. I don't get mad at him because of what he did in my dream, but I may carry the feeling of sadness that I woke up with into my day for a bit and I can sometimes then be overly sensitive if something is said or done that feels related to the dream.

If I had to guess, I wonder if your friends woke up mad and then their husbands did something to annoy them immediately and so that, compounded with the dream, led them to be angry the whole day. Or their husbands did something that felt related to the dream - like one of them said he cheated because she never remembers how he takes his coffee and then that morning he says something about the coffee (not even meanly, necessarily, just bringing it up) and it triggers her.

Rationally, of course, it doesn't make sense to be mad at someone for something they didn't do, but since it's probably somewhat related to real life, I could see how it might affect you for the day (although I do think it's childish to not talk to someone period, especially when the reason is something they did in your dream).[/quote]

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