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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let me know if you need help with anything.

You have 2 choices: have the baby/don't have the baby. 
If you have the baby: You have 2 choices: Keep it/don't keep it

[b]Have you thought about those choices?
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Whatever happens we will support you in your decision and still plan to help you get through college. If your girlfriend needs support let us know.

I know this feels really big, but in the end everything will work out. Let me know how we can support you. [/quote]

No. Are you serious? They are mid 20s not 16. Many of us were married in our mid twenties. How rude to ask if they have thought about it. Do you seriously think they just flipped a coin? Good lord.[/quote]

They do have choices. Nobody needs to have a baby they're not prepared to raise. [/quote]

+1 and having this baby will tie these two people together for the rest of their lives. They are NOT married. This pregnancy is going to force them to think about whether they are both committed enough to this relationship to be co-parents to a child who will have had no choice in the matter. If they were on the path to marriage and this just moves up their timeline, that's one thing. If they had no intention of marrying each other and especially if one or the other was unhappy in the relationship and looking for a way out, they should really consider terminating the pregnancy and releasing each other from that lifelong connection.[/quote]

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