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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"While the quantity of men will be limited, the quality will be better. I have a friend who is dating online, and it is brutal. It's a bunch of sex craved creeps or married men pretending to be single."

I seriously doubt that the ratio of creeps to decent men is any higher on the apps than it is among men you meet by chance out in the real world. There are creeps everywhere. AND there are good and kind men everywhere.

What matters is whether you entertain the losers or quickly kick them to the curb. [/quote]

This! Filter ruthlessly from the profile and First messages to the rest.

And don’t live on hope. If someone is rude to the waiter, doesn’t clean up after themselves, boasts in anyway about taking advantage or f people, makes you in ANY way uncomfortable, move on quickly and firmly.  Oh and don’t you dare take it personally! They are who they are and they are just not for you. Someone else will be a match for them.

Met my husband online 15 years ago, after over 100 first dates and probably 500+ online “connections” or messages which told me everything I needed to know. Honestly only a handful were creeps, most were just nice people but of no interest to me, and I had two short relationships and finally met DH. [/quote]

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