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[quote=Anonymous]OP here and I appreciate all the responses. We struggle with the same things as many other families with uneven division of mental load but the things that we deal with are really challenging and emotional. I think it’s bad dynamic when I’m always the one actually dealing with everything, and when we try and have a conversation he’s so out of the loop it’s very unhelpful and I have to spend time explaining why we can’t snap our fingers and make X happen or if we do something for either this child or a sibling will have to go. The worst is the minimizing and constantly telling me I am too upset I think. Last night he took me I only felt the way I felt because I was tired and he didn’t trust me to email the IEP team because I would be rude, despite agreeing that there was a specific issue we needed to deal with. That really hurt because I work really hard to politely and clearly advocate for my kids, and I have done so for YEARS without being rude. He said it in front of one of our kids too who seemed really shocked by the idea I would be rude to a staff member. I am just so frustrated right now. [/quote]

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