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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think I have room to advise, as I 've struggled with similar things with DH. Fortunately we've finally come around to a place where he is for once more involved and cooperative, but it took our child getting to a point where they were very obviously struggling. That was when he finally stepped up. I think some PP's good advice, and I will just add, I found it helpful to start just making sure that DH went to all of the appointments with me- pediatrician, specialists, counselor, teachers, so he wasn't just hearing it from me. I found his constant blowing off of my concerns and questioning external advice really demoralizing and exhausting. But as the primary parent that had usually taken all of those responsibilities, he was only hearing it filtered through me. And it created this dynamic where he was more aligned with our child who was in denial, and resistant to any need for intervention. [/quote]
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