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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]After a 20+ year marriage I would find it very awkward to go online, meet up with men and try to hash out over a coffee/dinner what's most important to know about me and my story.

I vastly prefer enlarging my general network with the goal of meeting men in my professional and social circles. I am concerned, however, that the number of eligible men would be much smaller than online.

Interested to find out how others have dealt with this.[/quote]

This makes sense. While the quantity of men will be limited, the quality will be better. I have a friend who is dating online, and it is brutal. It's a bunch of sex craved creeps or married men pretending to be single.

You need to be aggressive about letting your friends and family know that you are single and looking. People love matchmaking. I have tried to connect 2 couples this year. One is a single relative to a friend's relative ( this one is going very well) and the other is a former colleague and to former colleague. There are many people like me in my circle who are always trying to match people. There will be people in your circle like that too. You have to let them know you are looking.[/quote]

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