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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are you going out of your way to coordinate a visit for someone who doesn’t treat you well? I think I’d do nothing at this point. If she coordinates with DH and he doesn’t let you know and it doesn’t work out well just tell SIL you didn’t know the plans so you couldn’t work around her. If she doesn’t plan anything with DH, easy enough. If she doesn’t come which ultimately makes your life easier.[/quote]

This. Share the family events calendar in the kitchen so that your husband can see it. If your SIL happens to arrive just as you’re going out the door to the Pierpont’s open house, oh well. Tell her you’ll be back in a couple of hours.

Another poster said that OP should keep the guest room ready. I wouldn’t even go that far. DH can handle that since he’s the one arranging when the SIL is visiting. Let him pull the towels and make the bed.

Getting frustrated and attempting to manage everything is a choice, OP. As they like to say here on DCUM: DROP THE ROPE. [/quote]

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