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[quote=Anonymous]The friend saying she'd "love to stay" at your country home seems especially weird and entitled, unless you have somehow without realizing extended an implicit open ended invitation in the past. It would be a bit different if it was like "you know everything that has been going on with me and I really need to get away from it all. I hate to ask but I have another friend who's been really helping me deal with it all and would it possibly by ok for us to take a week at your country place?" Even it there was some kind of vague implicit invite the right thing to do is to be extremely ingratiating and apologetic when a person wants to take up such an invite. Even if you're considering it, this would be a good time to have a long conversation and probe as to where things are with this person and what the friend's role in their life is, etc etc. [/quote]
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