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[quote=Anonymous]OP here - here's the update.   Overall DD took things fairly well (I asked her to ask BF to spend Christmas Eve/Day with his family this year - they live about 2 hours away).  Our conversations were a little rocky at first (she joked about him being exiled)  but things are good now, and back to normal.    BF is still going to come here after Christmas and I got him a little gift, told my other kids they need to be nice etc.  He is clearly important to her, and I'm not trying to break them up despite my concerns, just wanted a little space.    As for BFs visits with us when she is not here, that stopped after I said no for staying with us for Christmas Eve/Day.  She will be home on break for over a month, so I expect to see him quite a bit during that time.  I'm glad I set the boundary for Christmas, and we will see what happens now.    And, as to his appeal -  he is very tall, good looking and crazy about her - I can see the chemistry, and it seems genuine.  He treats her well, always brings gifts and plans fun outings etc.  In many ways he is a good BF even though he can be controlling and is not traditionally ambitious.  He has a good relationship with his family - he even brought his mother to meet us at our home once and she is very nice (that's another story).   Anyway - I'm glad i did what I did.  One day at a time.[/quote]

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