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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, you should not have tried to set something up at this point. I'm sure she is busy enough trying to track down no replies like you, and that is what her messages were about: the party. I'm sure she wants you to attend the party and you can reconnect and catch up there. AT the party would have also been a good time to say, "Hey, great to see you! Let's grab coffee sometime. Are you in town at all over the holidays for a quick meet up? We could invite Sally too."[/quote]
NP, but how hard is it to acknowledge that and reply back, “Sounds great, let’s catch up after the dinner.” That took me maybe three seconds. [/quote]

It's not hard but it's also incredibly easy when communicating via text to leave something like that hanging. Especially if, as is likely, she had sent multiple texts that day to different people making sure they got the invite as she tries to nail down the headcount, and may have been responding to multiple people. Her focus that day was on the dinner, she forgot to follow up with OP regarding future plans. Maybe she meant to do it later and then it slipped her mind.

Surely this happens to everyone? You've never meant to respond to a text chain, gotten distracted, and then forgotten about it? This is the problem with text.[/quote]

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