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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Half his retirement fund, half the joint account, plus alimony since you're not working and child support for your child. Did he not think he was going to split retirement with you when you got married? Without a pre-nup, you should assume he intended for you to have half of any money he came in with. [/quote] OP here - a few more details: 1. We did have a prenup that stated we would each take out what we brought in, and divide whatever we earned during the marriage. It expired after 5 years. 2. I am initiating the divorce, due to his behavior, but he has never been unfaithful or dishonest, not that it necessarily matters. 3. I really do not want to leave him in the lurch, but maybe that's my guilt talking. [/quote] I would honor the prenup in this case. Let him keep his money assuming you have full control over custody matters. [b]Being a decent human is important for the kid[/b].[/quote] Rare case on DCUM but OP sounds decent to me. Hopefully husband is as well. He is older than you OP so he may feel skittish about money. [/quote]
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