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Reply to "My friends are telling me to be mean to men"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes. Don’t be mean but remember that you have the upper hand. Never accept poor treatment and immediately end the relationship if he treats you poorly. Men sniff out low self esteem women who will tolerate their BS. Don’t be this person. You need the immediately set the expectation that you know your value and will move on if he tries to take advantage or treat you poorly. -signed, former people pleaser whose dating life improved dramatically when I adopted this behavior.[/quote] This. It will feel “mean” to you, but it’s not truly mean. It’s being respectful towards yourself. Stop sacrificing your own interests constantly with the hope that a man will like you for that. [/quote]
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