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[quote=Anonymous]I got too tired to read the second scenario but the first scenario, yes, you’re bringing her as a mother’s helper and you need to pay her when she babysits. You should have framed it as a fun summer job where she babysat her cousins for 4-8 hours a week while coming along on the trip. But, as a former 16 year old girl, this trip might not be what she wants to do for the summer anyways. At 16, I’d have wanted to be around my friends , not sending a month in a foreign country with elementary aged cousins and my aunt. Not saying it’s not a nice offer, but, framing these things as “why wouldn’t she want this great experience???” Always makes me roll my eyes. Many teen girls won’t want to spend the summer with their aunt and their jet lagged, possibly whiny, younger cousins [/quote]
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