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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wish my BF were older.

I’m 39 with kids, he’s 30 no kids. He’s literally the perfect man and exactly what I have wanted my entire life. I’ve never met anybody like him.

But, I refuse to let him give up his life to be with me. I know he has ambitions that require him to move, and he wanted his own kids. He says he’s okay with giving that up but I won’t let him. Not at age 30. I know he would end up regretting it in 10 years.

So I keep pushing him to apply for jobs I know he wants that are out of state, knowing he’s going to end up moving away someday. Which sucks. I’ll miss him terribly. [/quote]
I know a couple kind of in your situation. They got married and had kids and are still together 20 years later. Not that I think having more kids with the new guy would be great for your kids. My friend’s older DD is pretty messed up because of her replacement family, but the parents seem happy. [/quote]

PP. I could give it a shot if I could have a kid with him, but I know 100% I do not want anymore kids.

So I’m just trying to enjoy it for what it is. I figure I get a couple good years with him. [/quote]

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