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[quote=Anonymous]No I deal with this a lot at work. I am a manager of a group of people who are very good at their core function but the type of person who is good at their core function also seems to have a high rate of overlap with a few specific other behavior traits. This is what I suggest: - figure out a name for the behavior and a rationale that is non inflammatory. - Talk to his boss about wanting to have a conversation with him in private about it. - Do not name his disorder in either of these conversations. - Tell him privately, directly (this is key), firmly and kindly what he needs to stop doing. - tell him to hold his comments and you will answer the questions after class. - tell his boss you have had this conversation, in writing. Be direct but not litigious in the tone you use and make sure that it's framed in "as we discussed" You are NTA but you need to protect yourself.[/quote]
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