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Reply to "I need to get off the emotional rollercoaster with my husband’s BPD mom"
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[quote=Anonymous]You sit him down and describe the cycle, with dates if you can recall them. Tell him this is not a normal way to live, and that he needs to read up on this and keep his mother at a distance permanently. For example, she's not welcome in your home. If he wants to meet her somewhere, he can go and meet here somewhere. Tell him you do not want her around for any Holiday organized by your household. If someone else invites everyone over for Christmas or something, fine, you can see her there. But you will not invite her for Thanksgiving, go to Mother's Day brunch with her, or any of that stuff. If you have kids and he's fine with bringing the kids to see her by himself, you're OK with that. [/quote]
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