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[quote=Anonymous]After years of bad behavior, I’ve grown tired of trying to make my SIL (my brother’s wife) comfortable. It’s clear she has undiagnosed issues that she refuses to treat, and I can’t contort myself any more than I already have, unsuccessfully, to make her feel better. I don’t hate her, I just feel nothing. But I know I don’t respect her. At the same time, I don’t want to cut off my brother, and they are a package deal. I accept I have to see her from time to time if I want access to my brother. So what does this look like? I know gray rock, but how does that look? Example, I’m at dinner with my brother. Obviously I have to include her in conversation, ask questions, contribute to the conversation. So how does gray rock work in these instances?[/quote]
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