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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]oh gosh. I'm sorry. I am dealing with this right now, first in a sibling-in-law. Spouse went no-contact and so I thought we were safe after the rest of my ILs just brushed it off for years and years. It was crazy-making and scary. And then my spouse hit a similar age to when it happened to sibling-in-law and it all started to come out in my spouse. And it is terrifying. I alternated between being scared and sad. Books help when they're a relative you don't see often, but when it's up close you need to just stop reading and get yourself out of there, I mean it. Out of morbid curiosity, I'm going to guess that it got bad at age 40-45?[/quote] Near it. They are master of keeping it functionally hidden which helps rest of family deny, but the confabulation is bad. Thank you for reply. Really really appreciate. It’s very isolating to be on this side of it and especially when rest of family ignores/denies/excuses.[/quote]
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