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[quote=Anonymous]We skip events where my unstable BIL might attend. My husband also never got along with his brother, so doesn't miss him. It was actually a relief to my husband, once we made the decision that we couldn't trust/feel safe around BIL anymore. My in-laws have real sadness and regret that there aren't complete family functions anymore, but do not put (much) pressure on my husband to reconsider. I think it helps our relationship with the in-laws that we don't talk trash about BIL to in-laws, or resent them for having their time with the BIL. We just don't want to be around him and don't want him near our kids.[/quote]
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