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[quote=Anonymous]I have a teen old boy who rarely makes A meets. Large team, lots of swimmers who swim year round 5 days a week, he’s just not as fast as they are. My son would beat girls if he swam against them and would be in the A meets based on his current times. But most boys don’t want to win against girls just to win the race, that’s not something that they aspire to do because it’s winning no matter what. Most boys wouldn’t see that as an accomplishment. I don’t think any of of the boys who become trans girls/women are doing so just to dominate a sport. They really do feel like they are the other gender and they just want to be who they are. Maybe they don’t need to be in professional sports, but these summer swim leagues are ref leagues—they’re not a small jump to the Olympics. I get how you’re going for fair, I do, but I think it’s a lot more complicated than you think, and also it’s not up to you to make these decisions. Writing “boy” next to the kids name on the best sheet was uncalled for. There were many other ways to approach that without becoming a vigilante with a sharpie. [/quote]
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