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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did your date actually say she had concerns about your history?

Because it seems far more likely that she just didn't vibe with you for whatever reason.  [/quote]

OP here. Yes I'll agree with you we probably didn't vibe. But when I have been on dates before, I always feel like they think there is something wrong with me because I am single no kids never married at this age. I understand it's part of the vetting process, but it's frustrating nevertheless because there is nothing wrong me I just didn't want to settle in my 30s. [/quote]

“Not wanting to settle in my 30s”—what does that mean? Were you expectations unrealistic?

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OP here. But settle I meant getting married having kids. Poor choice of word. I don't have unrealistic expectations. I many not be the most outgoing bubbly guy, but I am an introvert either. I think my issue is that I don't have that spark that can captivate a woman's attention. And this why I was hoping OLD would work for me because with OLD at least the first initial contact is not face to face. Should I get a dating coach? I'm getting kind of desperate and I don't want to be alone anymore because I have a lot to offer. I get my sperm count/mobility checked yearly, I exercise and eat healthy. So I don't know.[/quote]

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