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[quote=Anonymous]I am completely confused by the redacted part, and by who knew that your birth mom had had a baby, and who didn't.

It sounds like you found your birth mom.

She offered to introduce you to the man she likes to think is your birth dad, you accepted, she did so.  We'll call this guy BD #1

BD #1 says he didn't know she was pregnant or that there was a baby at all.  He does not seem invested in you.

You have sense heard rumors that Birth Mom was involved with another man at the same time, and that he might be your Birthfather.  We'll call him BD #2.  Birth Mom is adamant that he is not the Birth Father.  Also you think he might have been abusive to her.

You decided not to pursue genetic testing.

Now you find out that BD #2 did know you were born, and has assumed all these years that you are his child.  But now he's dead.

You're wondering if you should do DNA testing.

Is that right?

If so, I think you have no obligation to test, but I might do so out of curiosity if it was me. [/quote]

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