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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So there are no kids involved?

Your ex is trying to give you as little money as possible - he doesn’t want to settle. This prolonged legal process is going to be stressful for you but you unfortunately can’t really stop it. When someone is taking the most aggressive stance you cannot resolve things through the tools that you hear about in less high conflict cases (mediation, settlement).

I would consult with your lawyer to understand what their plans are and how they see this unfolding, and better understand their strategy. If you have no urgent issues you need taken care of, then sitting tight and letting your ex run up his own legal bills may be all you can do.

[b]At a certain point though you will need to assess your own legal costs. [/b][/quote] The law in my state says he is responsible for my legal bills since he insisted on litigating and is the "monied spouse"[/quote]

I hope that’s true! You still need to make sure you are directing your lawyers and not just letting them run up your bill. [/quote]

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