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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Rank these in order of the ones that you think contributed to it and add anything that was missed:

[b]1-Spouse doesn’t talk to you/distracted/on phone too much or doesn’t listen.
2-Spouse no longer attractive (got fat, hygiene issues,etc).
3-Politics (you and spouse voted for different parties, view the world differently, etc).
4-Boredom, monotony, not enough novelty.
5-Spouse is bad at sex
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N/A-Resentment over things spouse doesn’t do (chores, parenting, etc)
N/A-Spouse has a substance abuse problem.
N/A-Cheating or infidelity.
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Spouse stopped seeing me, caring about who I am, never cared about my goals/dreams. Went to zero emotional intimacy, but maybe it wasn’t even fantastic to begin with. Then he let himself go. Then we started arguing about politics and I realized we have completely different values. He gives zero effort and shut down my (albeit humble) attempts to reconnect. It’ll probably kill more than our sex life in the end. I’m still attractive, fun, and interesting. He just DGAF anymore and then acts shocked when I tell him I’m unhappy, which I have done maybe every 9 months for the last 3 years.[/quote]

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