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[quote=Anonymous]Two ideas: 1. You are almost certainly wearing the wrong size bra (I have been your size, and bigger, and smaller, and I need different bras for different weights). Go get fitted for a bra, ideally at a lingerie store rather than a department store. Try on lots of stuff -- sometimes even the professional fitter is off a size, depending on brand -- but get something that fits really well. It makes a huge difference to your silhouette and posture. Don't be afraid of something full-coverage if it does good things for your shape: you can always find a style with lacy accents. 2. I am in favor of getting comfortable "everyday" underwear that you can wear under clothes *and* just walk around in without feeling self-conscious. Not that you can't also have that special occasion undies, but get in the mindset of "all my underwear looks good on me." I happen to be a big-hipped girl who likes full coverage panties -- not everybody's idea of sexy, I know, but it works for me and DH -- so I like hipster style panties because they don't emphasize my saddlebags like hi-cuts do. If you're interested, I recommend Hanes cotton hipsters (size up, they shrink) and also Bali slimming bands panties for light shaping without the indignities of Spanxx. Good luck![/quote]
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