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[quote=Anonymous]My adult friends get together 4-5x a year, usually for birthdays. Some of the girls I don’t talk to or see unless we get together. One of these girls sends me a harry and David gift box every year. She doesn’t have kids or family and when we got together for her birthday I was unprepared and didn’t have a gift for her. Am I obligated to gift people back for their birthdays? I feel so strange to be given a birthday gift at age 45, we can buy ourselves whatever we need. I gave her a card and flowers but I feel so strange. I have another such event today and have to run to the store to get a $50 gift card. Does anyone struggle with these things? Do I need to announce to these people to stop doing gifts? It’s stressing me out. I’m probably a little neurodivergent so be kind. I worry about things that most people don’t. [/quote]
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