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[quote=Anonymous]I did. He cheated while I was pregnant/postpartum.

Honestly the three years or so after that I was so depressed I could barely function. I was a zombie and just did my best to go to work and take care of the kids. There was absolutely no way I had the capacity for a divorce, moving out, etc.

After those 3 years I just stopped caring about marriage entirely. What am I gonna do even if we split? I don’t want another man. I don’t want to get married ever again. So I stayed together because it’s just easier with the kids.

But now I basically live my own life. I don’t care if he cheats again. I put myself first, and once the kids are out of the house, I plan to have a silent divorce where I just go do whatever I want.

We still have a relationship. We still have sex, go on dates, have fun, and try to set an example for the kids. I don’t think he’s cheated ever again, he freaked out after he saw how depressed I was and did a ton of therapy.

I don’t know if that makes sense. It’s almost like, if we had divorced, I would have had boyfriends for fun and companionship, but they would have never been a top priority. Since that’s what I would have done, I just did that with my H instead. We have fun, but there’s not a lot of emotion on my end and I don’t prioritize him.

I also flirt a LOT with other men. I know people will say two wrong don’t make a right, but it actually does help me a lot. [/quote]

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