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[quote=Anonymous]My husband doesn’t drink that often, but when he does, it’s very problematic. He will drink and drive, he will blackout, he will make stupid decisions that end up in him getting hurt, etc. For context, married 20 years, and we are in our mid 40s with teens at home. This past year has been a hard year for our marriage so I already feel a little broken.

Last night, I could tell that he had been drinking, even though he had been home all day working. When I asked him about it, he told me no he had not been drinking. He continued to seem more and more drunk, and left to go to the store to get something for our child, which made me look in his office. I found a bottle of vodka in his briefcase and realized that he had poured some into a soda can and was drinking it out of that to hide it from me.

There is so much wrong with this scenario. Drinking and driving, lying, hiding. I would like to think I know when he’s strong, but there could definitely have been other times that he drank and I didn’t know. And I guess it doesn’t matter because it’s not really my decision, but it just feels very deceitful.
I don’t even know where to start on this one. Any advice or ideas would be really helpful… [/quote]

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