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[quote=Anonymous]I’m so exhausted. On top of everything else, DH acts like it’s my shortcoming that neither of us excels at tying a tie. He has an event tomorrow he needs to wear a tie for. I can tie a decent tie but he hasn’t even tried.

He’s on the spectrum, I have adhd. We have 2 kids, one adhd, the other asd. We all have crazy high IQ, but whatever because the ‘tism and ADHD are deadweights now.

We both work. He makes 2/3 and I make 1/3. He doesn’t drink or spend money or do anything other than watch MSNBC. I prefer Apple TV, good restaurants, and shopping (but only when I can’t live without it).

We have a nice lifestyle together. I truly enjoy his company and he hasn’t done laundry since 2010. Sometimes it feels like it’s worth it, and sometimes I think a roommate would be less of a burden.

If I leave, I have much less cushion and can’t door dash as often. Health insurance is gonna be a wretched dirty laundress. But I wouldn’t have to do meal planning or laundry for another adult who’s supposed to be my partner.

Sorry for the clickbait. I guess this is bigger than can’t tie a tie. Of course I’m the only one in this partnership who is awake concerned about their partner’s dress code tomorrow. I get to wear a sweater and khakis with practical shoes. [/quote]

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