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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I tried, for many years, to have conversations about foreplay. We have been together for 15 years. He is a ready and go type person. So he is full blown penetration right away. There is minimal affectionate for weeks before he decides he is ready to go and again, full blown penetration. I am getting to the point that I am making up excuses to not sleep with him. I get it, there are times that I need to just go for it and there are other things I can do. I do them. BUT what about me?!?? I need hugs, kisses, back rubbed, not all at once but every now and then. I need a tease. I get nothing. I tried to have conversations in the act, then outside of bed and he says ok, he gets it and does it maybe once but then back to his ways. Seriously, what do I do? I am getting older, I’m 40 and I want to be wanted not used. No, not considering divorce at all just tools that I can use to help this situation if anyone has been in it before. Not trying to make this super explicit either.[/quote]

I just wonder how do you guys end up marrying men like this. Seriously I wouldn't seriously date a woman who comes in bend over and put her panties to the side for me to go in while it's all dry. No no no. I need it wet first and for that go happen we have to do the necessary preps touching kissing licking you know....

And sorry OP but your DH is not going to change. He is the type that has sex just to bust a nut. Sex should be more than that. [/quote]

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