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[quote=Anonymous]STBXH has been having an affair with a younger woman which is at least the most obvious cause of our divorce. The affair has consisted as far as I can tell of all the best parts of the fun (and well funded) early infatuation / limerence phase. By the time divorce is final and split custody really kicks in, it will be the first time she’s around our children. It will also be the first time ExH has the children solo for such extended periods of time. I’m worried for my kids of course but also just puzzled how this works for them. Maybe it’s just morbid curiosity but it seems like those changes will be more difficult to them than me (going from almost no help since I’m primary parent to more time off for myself). We are still ironing out the details on custody etc so I’d anyone has BTDT and has any advice on things I may not be considering on the settlement agreement I’m all ears. (I don’t know if she will officially become stepmom hence the quotation marks in subject line but I’m sure there will be some level of her playing at that role) [/quote]
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