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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My dh cheated after 20 years of marriage (together for 26 years).  I caught him but he was very remorseful and did everything he possibly could to go deep into therapy, antidepressants, deeper religious work, to come to terms with his childhood trauma (which was quite real) and worked on himself so so hard knowing I would not decide whether to stay or make him go.  Three children and otherwise a good marriage (people don’t realize this but it can be very true especially if the cause of the cheating is the underlying mental health problems which it was for us).  For me I got much stronger through therapy and now see it for what it was.  I still hate the AP very much and hate how many people I know think she is worthy of respect because of her work when it is very clear to me she is justa broken alcoholic.  Anyway we are heading toward 6 years since DDay and are staying together but I will never trust him or anyone as completely as I did before (which was a mistake as it was).  But you can do it if the cheating spouse takes responsibility and does all the opposite things from what led them to cheat.  I am glad I was able to hang in there also for our children as it would have devastated all of them.[/quote]

Looks like you are afraid to be alone. I am not sure you have moved on.[/quote]

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