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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Come on, tell us...what's your judgy-est, snobbiest thought about relationships?

Mine is that I've never met a marriage between high school sweethearts that I'm jealous of. [/quote]

[b]NP.  I agree, but then I realize I've never met [i]any[/i] marriage I'm jealous of. [/b]😕

Here's my judgiest thought.  I know several white women who date/marry only black men, and they've told me they just think black men have an "edge" to them -- a version of the classic bad boy fetish.  Which actually means all these white women are quite racist (!) since they think black man = bad boy.  [/quote]
True, but idk, it's more than that. They usually are just married out of inertia and have no idea who they are individually. My cousin married his middle school sweetheart and they have always been miserable. Even when they were 23 and engaged it was like pulling teeth to get them to set an actual date for the wedding.

My sister is married to her college sweetheart and while I love my BIL and I do think they are at least happy, it is kind of weird to me that they have no concept of adulthood without the other. They have been dating since they were juniors in college, moved in together right after graduation, and were married by 25. But at least they were able to develop a sense of individuality which people like my cousin and his wife were not. [/quote]

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