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[quote=Anonymous]For the past 12 years I have taken a large vacation every other year (10 days, foreign countries) with family members.  It's my vacation with my daughter and I provide all the info to extended family members to join us if they want. 
This year I am planning a major bucket list vacation that I have been looking forward to for as long as I can remember.

Wrinkle: I recently got married.  I am about to start booking airline tickets, so I confirmed with DH last night "You are going to "great place" with us, right?  He said, "I don't really want to, as I'd rather focus on an anniversary trip for us."  He's known about this dream of mine forever!! I'm so disappointed and sad.  Yes, other family members were going to join.  I know that if he decides to come along it will be constant complaining about everything, and don't let something "go wrong" with the trip, I'll never hear the end of it.  At the same time, I don't want to go without him due to cost and amount of days.

Do I cancel the trip and allow him to plan an anniversary trip with the agreement that we go on my bucket list trip next year?  I hate canceling with family as we were all looking forward to it.  Unfortunately, this will push my vacation plans off schedule.  I plan a large trip every other year and this pushes everything back.

Trying to wrap my head around this disappointment that I feel is hard.  [/quote]

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