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[quote=Anonymous]A lot of the replies here are clearly from straight women. As one pp earlier said, cheating is cheating. It's unethical and wrong. You can ask him about opening up your marriage and going polyamorous but he didn't sign up for that in the beginning and he doesn't have to agree. Here's the truth you know but probably don't want to hear: it's time to reevaluate if the marriage is working for you. Does it meet your needs? Are you fulfilled? Are you happy? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with your husband or would you rather date women? We don't get second chances in life. There are no do-overs. We aren't reincarnated and given a second chance to live our best lives. When you're on your deathbed, are you going to look back at this moment with regret at the path not taken wishing you had been stronger and more courageous? You're in your early 40's and have another 40 years to go. How do you want to spend it? Think about this. Maybe find a queer therapist to discuss this with. Someone that's queer themselves and have a lot of experience with the community. [/quote]
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