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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am 42 and have always known I have a gay side (we’re all on a spectrum blah blah) but I’ve never been a big dater and when I met my husband when I was 22 i genuinely fell in love and have been w him since. Fast forward to a major cliche. Call it whatever you want but I feel so gay in this period of my life and badly want to dip my toes in the water. Is there ever a “moral” way of quietly being with women. My DH thinks this is about him and his reaction has been deeply main character. I don’t even know why I told him—it was an attempt to share a hard year around this and it went horribly. Do women out there have low key women they date on the side? I have previously had v strong ideas about cheating but this feels different and I don’t have anyone to talk to or a way to touch grass to not feel so crazy. [/quote] You want to step outside your marriage and you are shaming him for having a normal negative reaction to this? Honey child, please. You are the one with main character syndrome. Try making him a deal: You want to sleep with a woman. He gets to as well. Would you be good with that? It’s a serious question. [/quote]
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