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[quote=Anonymous]I recently cut off a friendship as this friend is unreliable and cancels at the very last minute a lot.

Other things I have noticed

Seems to create or attract drama with other friends. A lot of the time we spend together she speaks about people who have wronged her. It’s exhausting talking through it. I get stuff happens but we’re too old for this. I have two children and only so much time to talk and get together with this person.

Seems to be irritable a lot and it’s uncomfortable.

I’ve tried giving her the benefit of the doubt as we have been friends for several years but her situation hasn’t gotten better. She also spends a lot of time blaming her parents for the way her life turned out.

My husband thinks I could be helping her by pointing out some of these things and says she needs to grow up. The last time she canceled last minute was the last straw for me and I told her I can no longer be close to her if she’s not reliable. She told me I need to be more understanding of her situation and let’s just say reacted very badly. She also de friended me on Facebook the same day. I have a feeling she will come around and apologize eventually. She’s a very sweet person and has good qualities but it’s hard to be around someone who isn’t reliable and negative. Her mind is very scattered as well. Sometimes she says there was a misunderstanding with plans even though I confirm with her the night before. The next day she will claim she told me she couldn’t come a few days before. This has happened twice now… I was thinking maybe she misread messages but it’s happened two times now. She texted me saying yes see you tomorrow as we originally planned.

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