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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1459 I do tell people, but not exactly how I said it here. I try to be nice but people don't get it. They expect you to cater to them. I find it to be rude. And its offensive that there is this notion that I need to change. No I don't. I am fine. If you don't get it maybe you need to change into a person with better manners. Everyone doesn't want you in their face all the time. There is room for all types of people.[/quote]

What about what I said made you think that I don't have good manners?  All I am saying is that you need to be clear if you don't want them to stay.  I like people to stay, you don't, great, people are different.  I'm certainly not asking you to change that, but I am saying that people might not know that is how you feel.  "Trying to be nice" is clearly not getting across the point.  Tell them that you are unable to host.  Be clear.  Be firm.  You will be happier, and so will they; nobody likes to intrude, but they might not realize that it is intrusive to you.[/quote]

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