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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, if I knew where you lived, I'd bring over a bottle of wine.

Has he ever been evaluated for Attention Deficit Disorder? [/quote]

It's either ADD or he is being passive aggressive by saying he will do something (to shut you up) and then doesn't do it (because he never wanted to do it in the first place).  Maybe both.

Given the amount you have vented in this thread, I seriously think you should maybe go to counseling with your husband.  PP's have listed several good ideas but it seems like you are still angry.  You are building up resentments that will erode your connection and intimacy with your DH over time.  He is possibly already checking out.  He is just becoming a yes man to shut you up but not helping with what needs to get done.  You need a third party to dig in deep to get to the core of what is going on and help you both resolve things.

If he does have ADD - do research to find coping strategies for adults.  Start with www.chadd.org.  If he is being passive aggressive - there are strategies you can learn so you are not sucked into the madness.

My two cents.[/quote]

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