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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have emotionally detached entirely, after years of feeling completely gaslighted. I' tried everything. Even when my kids, who are not young adults and teens, tell him that he's wrong (he said or did X instead of Y, as he claims), he persists. I guess he lies to himself. Whether I manage to divorce remains to be seen, because I don't have the finances yet. My husband has an ASD/ADHD profile. Not everyone who has that behaves in this way (my son has it, and is as sweet and honest as can be). But I've known others with this profile who did the same thing, so this tendency to rewrite history or have irrational tendencies may be more common with that sort of brain. [/quote] Op here He just blamed me one something that others in the room saw as well. It is so bewildering and hurtful, at total loss. I feel you - as in exact same boat. [/quote]
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