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[quote=Anonymous]My husband did this for many years.  It drove me crazy because every time I had an issue, there first had to be a discussion of whether or not the thing I was upset about had actually happened.  DH referred to it as me going into “lawyer mode.”  
And then we could never talk about what happened.  Either he would never admit that it happened, or by the time he did, I would feel so relieved that I wasn’t crazy that this would be the whole discussion.

It was a lot of little stuff, but the little stuff can make up big stuff in a marriage.  Like the fact that he was in the nanny’s space when he got off work early led one of our nannies to quit, which made it harder for me to work.  
So, when he did it again, and I brought it up, he claimed that he wasn’t in her space or that she was fine, etc etc.  I never got a chance to say how much it stressed me out to worry she would quit.   The whole thing was just about whether or not it even happened.

I don’t know what happened, but our marriage is a lot better now, and he hasn’t done that stuff in years.

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