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[quote=Anonymous]Those are big helps. It would be different if it was helping with medical bills or helping pay for training or education to get a better job. Paying his rent for a year and buying him a car is just you subsidizing his lifestyle. Like what is he doing to get to the point where you pay for his housing and transportation? Anything? It's also not accurate to say your other kids don't "need" any help. Everyone could use help. Perhaps one of your other kids has fertility issues and could use financial help with that but feels they cannot ask because you are helping their brother. Maybe they have an idea to start a business and could use an investor. They have their basics covered I guarantee their are things they could use help with but they have been deemed not needy *enough* because your other son gets the focus. In their eyes they are getting less support from you BECAUSE they are more functional. It feels like being punished for being responsible. [/quote]
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