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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.. I wish co-parenting well was possible, but he is a raging co-dependent/ Borderline.  I should have stated that I am trying to find a schedule that puts the kids first and works well for their lives/ school/ stress/ activities/ friends.  I've put forth 3-4 iterations and while none are perfect, some are better than others, and he's red-lined all of them.  He is focused on staying at or above 140 nts per year, so obviously manipulating child support is his primary goal.

I don't think there's a schedule out there I haven't mulled over trying to find one that meets everyone's needs.  It's frustrating to me that I'm willing to make concessions that benefit the kids and reduce my time with them, and he only focuses on how many overnights he gets and what that costs him each month.  No matter that he works 70 hrs /wk and I WAHM, better they sit in his empty house with a sitter than stay with me until he can come get them himself.

UGH... I know it's not ever easy, but this seems incredibly hard to strike a balance that doesn't sell out the kids.[/quote]

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