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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's kind of a reductive, transactional and passive-aggressive way at looking at things, OP. Any parent would rather complain about their living child than lament their dead child. Dying before them would only make things more sad- you never paid them back/flew on your own/proved your worth.

If you actually feel bad about owing them so much money and taking so much away from them (if they need it), tell them often, thank them, show you care in ways that may not be financial and stay alive.

Only you know your financial issues, though. If you don't have a plan for being financially independent by the time they die, you may need to have them up their life insurance, invest well or find some new parents who can afford you, I guess.[/quote]

+1
This is a kid who says 
"I wish I'd never been born"
"You want me to run away"
"You wish I had never been born and would be happy if I ran away"

Just stop OP. Get help.
Stop making it all about you. Go volunteer with truly unfortunate people. Get off the internet. 
Then go be a better person. Do it for your parents. They want that more than they want you dead. [/quote]

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