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[quote=Anonymous]Interestingly, like a PP above, I'm a lifelong snooper whose parents were both addicts.  I discovered lots of hidden secrets that did help explain some of their issues, like the fact that my mother was forced to give up a baby for adoption in her teens.

In my 30's, I dodged a HUGE bullet through snooping...discovered my partner of 2 years was a sex addict who hooked up with people when I was out of town for work.  LOTS of people.  He admitted to one transgression.  Snooping helped me realize there were countless.

In my 50's now, I have mostly given up snooping.  My DH is untrustworthy on some levels but I am not prepared to divorce right now, and I just don't feel like sparing the emotional energy to catch him lying.  I just don't have any to spare.  If he's having an affair, so be it.  That's on him.  I'm not losing sleep over it, literally.  When I'm ready to leave, I will leave on my own terms that go beyond things he has lied about and may still be lying about.  I'm not letting him steal any more of my energy worrying about it.[/quote]

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