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[quote=Anonymous]Yeah, I think “unflattering” probably means you think she’s too fat to wear this or that. I honestly don’t think there’s any upside to you telling her that. She can see herself in the mirror. She may have a different opinion than you about what is “flattering,” and that’s okay. If there are specific events like church or weddings or whatever where you feel you can’t handle it, set guidelines like “no belly skin showing, nothing skin tight” and then just stick to them. I don’t think there’s any upside to getting into an argument about “flattering” especially because that’s just a cover for what you really mean. [/quote]
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