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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm very sorry, OP. You need to prioritize yourself. I'm in a similar situation, and sometimes I feel the only reason I'm still alive is that my kids still need me. I'm not quite sure what prioritizing oneself means, in the context of straightened funds, demands on one's time and an abusive spouse... but I listen to classical music, try to read good books and uplifting movies and spend time with my friends and children. Is your mother on a waitlist for the appropriate government facility? She needs to be. You can't kill yourself trying to do everything, poor dear. [/quote] She can have in home care covered up to 24/7 but she refuses. Same for a home, she refuses and it would be sad for her. [/quote] Tough love here. Grow a spine, OP. So what if it would be “sad” for her. And if she refuses, she gets to fester. You need to prioritize yourself and child. Keep it together and give him a great college send off. Ditch mom for now. Play nice with husband while plotting to get him away from you. Look for a new job. [/quote]
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