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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DD is 12 and has always struggled with emotional regulation. We’ve generally worked on some decent strategies in life but the one situation I haven’t figured out is post game disappointment. There’s lots of drama the ride home (we’re horrible, I did the worst ever, I never get better, …). She could’ve scored the winning goal and it won’t matter, she rarely comes off the field without being extremely self critical or critical about the teams performance. I’ve come to understand it’s a lot of venting so I just keep my mouth shut and listen. But are there better strategies to help her before she gets to this point? Do some people just need a cool down period? [/quote] Anxiety, And her self worth is tied up to her winning. You need to let her know in many ways that you love her unconditionally.[/quote]
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